100 Questions to Deepen Intimacy, Navigate Conflict & Strengthen Partnerships
For Marriage and Family Therapists, Couples Counselors, Relationship Coaches & Premarital Counselors
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Every question draws from Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, positive psychology, and other evidence-based approaches to couples work.
Organized by relationship domains: Communication, Conflict & Repair, Intimacy, Trust & Vulnerability, Shared Values, Growth & Change, Appreciation, and Challenges.
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Practical strategies for in-session use, homework assignments, premarital counseling, affair recovery, and specialized applications with safety considerations.
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Each category addresses a critical dimension of relationship health and connection
Building empathy, active listening, and emotional attunement. Questions that help couples understand each other's communication styles and needs.
Managing disagreements, repair attempts, and forgiveness. Questions that help couples navigate conflict constructively and heal after ruptures.
Emotional and physical closeness, affection, and bonding. Questions that deepen intimacy and help couples stay connected.
Safety, openness, and emotional risk-taking. Questions that help build trust and create space for authentic vulnerability.
Meaning-making, goals, and alignment. Questions that help couples clarify their shared purpose and align around what matters most.
Personal development, adaptation, and evolution together. Questions that support individual growth while strengthening the partnership.
Positive interactions, recognition, and thankfulness. Questions that activate the couple's positive override and strengthen their bond.
Resilience, stress, and adversity. Questions that help couples face life's difficulties as a team and build confidence in their partnership.
Practical implementation strategies for couples therapy and relationship counseling
Have partners take turns answering while the other practices active listening. Use 2-4 questions per session, allowing 10-15 minutes per question for full exploration.
Assign one question per day for daily connection rituals, or 3-5 questions for weekly date night discussions. Use questions to practice communication skills between sessions.
Focus on values alignment, expectations, and vision questions. Help couples establish communication patterns and explore important topics before marriage.
When tensions rise, pivot to understanding-focused questions. Create space for repair and reconnection rather than escalating disagreement.
Use appreciation and connection questions to activate the couple's positive override. Strengthen the foundation of friendship and affection.
Use appreciation and growth questions to sustain therapeutic gains. Help couples continue deepening their connection after intensive work.
Every question is grounded in evidence-based frameworks
Emphasis on building friendship, managing conflict constructively, and creating shared meaning in relationships
Focus on attachment needs, emotional responsiveness, and creating secure bonds between partners
Cultivating strengths, gratitude, and positive interactions that build relationship resilience
Understanding the stories couples tell about their relationship and co-creating new narratives
Identifying what already works in the relationship and building on existing strengths
Understanding how early attachment patterns shape adult relationships and emotional bonding
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